Why the erotic/ sexual? Why THAT topic!?
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People have the wrong idea of true eroticism.
Our culture shows se-uality where focus is on physical stimulation alone...

But...

TRUE eroticism requires deep alignment of our minds, bodies, hearts, and soul-self
in order to experience more than sensation...
but pleasure, JOY, ecstasy
And once you experience that in one avenue,
you begin to DEMAND NOTHING LESS
than eroticism in EVERY OTHER part of your life.
It becomes a meditation that once cultivated,
makes you truly POWERFUL
Because you MOVE THROUGH LIFE connected to that force,
That is truly YOUR OWN...
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Original photo by Dan Davis

"Pleasure is the Measure"
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"Pleasure is the measure of se-ual wellbeing. NOT how often, or who with, or even how many orgasms you are having... It is whether or not you enjoy the se- you are having." -Emily Nagoski
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This is why I love the tantric practice. It allows us to let go of goals/expectations, be open to finding pleasure in what is real in the moment, and teaches us transferable skills in bringing pleasure to all aspects of our lives, not just in the se-ual.

​"The Best Kind of Dirty Talk"
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"Hey Love, I recognize I've been on the phone a lot this morning and I don't want to be in that vortex. I want to be in yours..."

Swoon...
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*Hitting the Quality Time AND Words of Affirmation sweet-spot