Myths about Penetra+ive Sex

Myths around Se*
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Myth: All people should want pene+rative se*.
Fact: Many people PREFER (or are at least available for) other types of se*ual play or intimacy that do not involve pene+ration- cuddles, making out, energy play, massage, food play, power-play etc!

Mantras:
--I give myself permission to have the se* I LIKE to have, not the
se" I THINK I SHOULD be having.
--I give myself permission to have the intimacy I LIKE to have, not the intimacy I THINK I SHOULD be having.

Conversation Starters:
"I'd like to connect intimately with you. I want to be clear that I am not interested in any form of pene+rative se*. Would you be open to exploring with me while honoring that boundary?"
"Would you be open to co-creating a sensual experience for us that did not include any form of pene+ration? Could you allow yourself to fully be present and fulfilled in an experience that did not include that?"
"I'd love to tell you about some sensual things I like that do not involve pene+ration..."

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Intimacy is so much more than putting X into Y. And personally, I think that "much more" is why we "put X into Y" for anyways. Let's shoot for that instead..

xoxo