V-Day Memoirs

Valentines Day Memoirs:
A Thank You to the Men in My Life: My Birthday "Men's Circle"

Many years ago, I envisioned having a "Men's Circle" where the most important men in my life showered me with love. THIS is the memory of those men, and what happened that day <3

Last year, for my birthday (in March), I wanted to be loved on and surrounded by, the most important men in my life. The men that show up consistently in my life (even if we go long spurts without physically seeing each other), that I can lean on, and that love me for our connection outside of the traditional se-ual space. These are those men.:

Jonathan- An ex-boyfriend that has evolved into a super sweet, deep friendship. He hosted the party at his house, made the most amazing food and atmosphere, and emotionally cheers me on like a boss. I love that he envisions a future for me where I am making even more of an impact and also famous.. LOL

Michael- An emotional support even in the roughest times. We have shared some of most intense joys and pains to one another and have, from the beginning, offered an equal energy exchange while also truly allowing each other to follow our own journeys.

Carter- The most recent add to the group. We created a "Sensual" play-party together after only having met in person once. This guy drives me nuts, in a good way. Carter teaches me how to own my boundaries and cat-like nature (wanting things on my terms) in a fun way AND is a blast to be around him and his community.

Daniel W- Another tantric practitioner, our energy twitches started from the moment I cuddled up next to him, and we can truly "Be" when we are together. He also happens to be the focal point of many of my favorite male-bodied humans- Most of my favorite men have been coached by him!

Ross- A true "cheerleader" for me and my business, Ross loves to love on me. He takes photos for my website, brags about me to whoever he think would benefit from my work, and loves to create spaces for me to receive- massage, cuddles, and affection. I feel like Ross is one big yes to me.

Lucas- "Girl, I'm just happy to be in your orbit." That is his quote for me. Half of the time I'm with Lucas, I feel like I'm high from the sheer nature of our wildness together. The fire energy Lucas brings makes say yes to letting out my wild side.


Guests of Honor (couldn't come due to distance or their preference for 1-on-1 time)
Jessie- Lives in Baja, Mexico. From books, conferences, road trips, and gifts, Jessie likes to share his world with me when he can. And it is awesome to nerd out about relationship styles, communication, etc together.
 
Daniel P- One of the biggest, if not biggest, givers, I have ever met. This guy brings me pizza when guys make me cry, cuddles me all night long, and will come get/fix my broken-down car at 2am if I need it. Another  love of my life, Apple (my car) was found by this guy!
 
Ian- I fell in love with Ian the first time I held him in a long hug. This guy his major squish vibes, flowy watery touch and dance-vibes that will bliss you out, and he never hesitates to tell me he loves me. Why do I love this guy? Sometimes, you just.. do.

For the event, Jonathan set up amazing home-made desserts (under an amazing banner, backdrop, and place-setting) that we ate while going around the circle 1 by 1 and sharing why our connection was so special and why we loved each other (I definitely had some tears). The number one piece of "Love-mail" I got from these men, was that I inspired them to "give themselves permission" to: ask for what they wanted, show up in new and authentic ways, and connect deeply. Then, they all surrounded me and gave me a massage! All of those energies in one space- so wonderful! I have heard some of them have become good friends through my connection with each of them and that makes me really happy too..

To the men, THANK YOU for loving me. With you all, I know our connection is based on love, trust, mutual respect, touch and connection, can or can-not include sensuality and either way, all of that still remains. Also, I love that some of these read like Google reviews on you.. happy to be a positive reference ;))

To Monique Darling and Peter Peterson, Thank you for demonstrating that this could be my reality..
To everyone else, thank you for being a part of my journey, and I wish this, and more for you too.

Also, shoutout to my amazing boyfriend, Chris, who continues to support my loving friendships with these amazing guys <3